Jessica Simpson’s Love Lessons
Jessica Simpson has had her share of ups and downs lately when it comes to love. She got divorced from her first love Nick, got her heart broken from John, and still doesn’t know what’s going on with her man Tony.
But every person we date teaches us something. The more we learn, the better able we are to find the right person.
Here are a few lessons Jessica Simpson has learned (at least we hope she has.)

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1.) Don’t change who you are to get a guy to like you more.
All we need to do is see Jessica with dark hair to understand how badly she wanted to change for John Mayer. He wanted a less dramatic babe who he could have a great conversation with, and yet would not take ten hours getting ready to go out. Trouble is, that’s not Jess. When John asked, “I wonder what you’d look like as a brunette” Jessica should have said, “Like your ex-girlfriend.”

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2.) Getting back with someone out of lonliness will never lead to a happy ending.
When Nick and Jess first dated she was very young and felt like she needed to see the world and date more people before she could commit fully to Nick. The problem is, she got lonely, called up Nick and said she wanted to get back together because - gosh - being single was no fun. If she’d have stuck it out, she might have learned a thing or two about herself and saw the differences between her and Nick. Instead, her lonliness lead to a marriage that probably should have never happened.

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3.) Remaining humble will help you appreciate the things that are real in your life.
When Jess was in Dukes of Hazzard she thought she was going to be a big time star. She starred in more commercials, she had a sleezy hit video, and she was in a movie with a couple of hunky guys. One of those guys, it was rumored, she dallied with while doing the movie. Everything in her life was netting more money and more attention. Perhaps that’s why she suddenly wanted out of her marriage to Nick. She forgot that Nick was genuine, and fame is fleeting.

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4.) Leave and cleave.
That means the next time you get married no reality TV cameras, not butt-insky dad, and no putting hubby behind career.

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5.) Don’t stalk your man and just “hang around.”
No guy likes a girlfriend who is always there. Have a life. Balance the time you spend with your man versus what you do elsewhere. Sing. Act. Do something besides push hair products and go out for dinner. No matter how beautiful you are, you’ll hold a man’s interest if you aren’t an interesting person.


